How to Communicate With Women (The Ultimate Guide + Image Quotes)

Men are descended from Mars, while women are descended from Venus. This is, at least, what we've been told.

There was a book with that title written a while back, and it gave me the impression that men and women are polar opposites in terms of species, with little hope of ever truly understanding each other.

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What this author failed to recognize is that men are very different from one another. You can't start an argument with “Men are all……” and not appear ignorant, because men aren't all the same.

The same holds true for women. Not all women are the same. The fact that each person is unique is what makes them wonderful. They each have their own set of loves and dislikes, as well as hopes and dreams.

I understand that this appears to be hopeless. How, in the name of all that is Holy, can you learn to talk to each and every one of them if all women are different individuals with different tastes and ideas? Not to worry! What I'm about to reveal to you is a closely guarded secret. It is the secret of how to talk to anyone, no matter who they are, and to pique their interest and, eventually, fall in love with them.

1. Look past the facade to the true person beneath it

We are perfect people hidden beneath the skin and bones. We have a lot of baggage and things from our past that haunt us, but we know these things aren't us.

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Nobody wants to be reminded of their flaws or their painful past. What we are most proud of is who we are at our core. We are most proud of the ideal person hidden beneath. When talking to a woman (or a man or a child), look for the ideal person and approach him or her.

It is easier to see this perfect person in some people than in others, and in some it is so hidden by strange pseudo personalities and other strange baggage that it is almost non-existent. If the person you're speaking with makes it difficult to access the perfect person beneath, move on. Look for someone who doesn't have as much baggage as you do. And whatever you do, don't waste your time conversing with phony celebrities. They simply aren't worth it.

2. Spend time establishing common ground and understanding

Put this skill to the test. Go to the supermarket or somewhere else where you'll have to interact with other people. Find something you like about the checkout person when you get there.

Women, in my experience, adore jewelry and go to great lengths to select and wear attractive pieces. If you find a piece of jewelry on them and compliment them on it, you will be greeted by the person who is looking up and seeing you, not some nameless, faceless person. They will automatically begin to feel better about you.

3. Allow the individual to speak about herself

This is the simple part. You don't have to be brilliant or dazzling. All you have to do is be a good listener and respond with information relevant to the topic at hand. It's truly a piece of cake.

For example, suppose you've just complimented a piece of jewelry (or a sweater or scarf) and the conversation has begun. In most cases, they will tell you a little bit about the piece. “Oh, it was a birthday present from my mother!” You then smile and say something to her like, “What a wonderful mother you have!”

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Resist the urge to start talking about yourself with all your might. This discussion is solely about her. If you do this every time you go through the checkout line, you will soon be friends. An invitation to coffee is an excellent next step in getting to know each other better.

4. Avoid topics on which you disagree

There is no faster way to make someone despise your guts than to take an opposing viewpoint and then try to persuade them that they are incorrect. Assume your adorable check-out person has accepted your invitation to coffee! Yay! This is a significant step. Don't blow it now by trying to impress her with your intelligence, size, or strength, while she is dumb, weak, and misguided. If you do this, this will be your last date, and you will have only yourself to blame. Instead, look for areas where you can all agree.

If you disagree on politics, avoid it like a five-day-old burrito stub you just dug up from under the sofa, because your negative comments will be just as welcome. Stick to what you completely agree on, and you'll be fine.

5. Respect her personal space

Your lovely clerk is a lady. She's had her fair share of guys try to get close to her. Respect her by allowing her some space. Attempting to move in too close when she is not ready is a violation of her boundaries. To her, this could mean that if you violate limits now, who knows what limits you will violate when she lets you into her world?

6. Take care of your personal hygiene!

You should brush your teeth and comb your hair. You don't stink at all! I know I shouldn't have to say it, but sometimes people don't realize how bad they are. Make certain you don't! Chew some gum or something if you've just had coffee and a cigarette!

Examine your teeth to ensure that nothing is stuck in them. Unless it's sexy rumpled, don't look all rumpled. Pay close attention to your clothing. Wear clean clothes and avoid wearing old, threadbare ones. No one will respect you if you do not respect yourself, and your outward appearance is a reflection of your self-esteem.

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Don't be concerned if you are slightly overweight, believe you are too short, or have any other personal characteristic that bothers you. Most people aren't even aware of these things. If they do and refuse to talk to you because of them, they aren't worth it. Let's move on! There are many lovely ladies out there looking for a caring and considerate man like you.

7. What about presents?

Most people enjoy receiving gifts, but there are times when they are unwanted. Assume you and your lovely clerk are having dinner together this evening. It is perfectly acceptable to give her flowers, but not flowers, chocolate in a heart-shaped box, and a new car.

She does not want to feel obligated, and receiving too many gifts makes her feel as if she now has to do something for you. While this may appear to be a good thing, it is not. Have you ever arrived at work and realized you forgot it was potluck day and didn't bring anything? What were your emotions like? Did you go around telling everyone you forgot it was potluck day and then ate nothing but chips? Did you sneak out the back and skip the whole thing because the responsibility was just too much for you? Do you get what I'm saying?

Wash and clean your car if you want to impress her. Inquire about her favorite movies or foods, and make reservations at a restaurant you know she'll enjoy. Take the time to plan a magical evening for her. What will impress her is the time you took and the respect you had for her.

8. Make an informed decision!

Remember! Not all women are desirable simply because they are females or because they are attractive. A beautiful snake can still kill you, and a negative, antagonistic, or passive aggressive (also known as covertly hostile) woman will make your life and the lives of any children you may have miserable.

Before you get too serious, take a moment to reflect. If your future girlfriend is one of these people, give her a hearty “So long, farewell, auf wiedershen, and don't let the screen door hit you in the a$$ on the way out!”

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A warm and loving woman with a twinkle in her eye and a sense of humour is far more appealing than a pretty psycho. When beauty is only on the surface, it can fade over time. True beauty, as seen when you see the perfect person underneath, lasts forever. Life is a difficult game, and only someone with integrity, compassion, and commitment will be there for you when you need her the most.
Others, if self-centered or psycho, will be long gone by the time you need a friend the most.

9. Recognize and move on when she isn't interested

Let's face it: even if you're wonderful, dazzling, and brilliant, you might not be someone's cup of cherries or bowl of tea in terms of future boyfriend material. It does happen. If it's clear that she doesn't want to be in a relationship, that's fine. You are not mistaken, and she is not mistaken. Maybe you can be friends. It is impossible to have too many nice people in one's life.

So there you have it. The essential information on how to communicate with anyone. Now, young Jedi warrior, go forth and use your power for good. I'm expecting an invitation to your wedding, or at the very least a slice of wedding cake!

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